The Oral Oh!

If you've had your partner tell you to go easy on her when you're going down on her sweet Va Jay Jay, you should probably start listening... Really, I mean it.

This even happens to me sometimes! We'll be toiling around with an insane heated passion and I tongue trot my way downtown to begin revving up her engine (not going directly for the clitoris). So I'm kissing around, "accidentally" brushing my tongue against her clit and she has now been teased, primed, and the ignition is a go!

The moment isn't so hot as to require aggressive and over excited pressure and sucking, which should only be done in special moments of over excited and over the top wild sex. So I begin to slowly apply pressure to the reaching clitoris with my tongue and give a few flicks here and there. Then she tells me, "Go easy baby, just a little softer." I think, "she just told ME that? ME?! And already?! I'm always gentle and receptive," leaving me a bit confused due to the already extremely light pressure I had been using.

(By the way, this kind of woman is a keeper in most cases. She'll tell you exactly how she likes it, then you can work towards mastering her playing field, then add your own little twists and tricks to send her over the top and leave that lasting impression.)

So I'm sure many of you guys have been in this situation. Whether you are crazy when you go down and think that applying as much tongue pressure as a power washer is a good thing, or you really do take a cautious approach to how much pressure you apply to the clitoris. It can be a bit frustrating and sometimes a mood kill. Even when you think you are going extra slow and light, yet she still tells you to tone it down a little, make sure to head her calls.

One thing to really remember when going down on a woman is that the clitoris is just like a condensed penis. I know that can be a gross interpretation but it is exactly accurate. Think about all the pleasure spots you have on your man-rod all packed into one quarter inch diameter - this is exactly what it is like for women! We love the fact that any ol' touching will send her into some sort of a pleasure stream of excitement and wetness. They are more receptive to you touching the one little spot than you are when they touch yours.

So as an example, when I was with this particular woman, I had to completely tone it down. What I thought was the most subtle of touch just sent her through the roof. You may be tempted to go in there full cocked and ready to go but take it easy. If that is the way she likes it, then give it to her. You do want her to love having you down there don't you? Otherwise why would you be here getting a few extra pointers now and then - because you care!

After about 4 minutes of extremely light, light, light touching, she instructed me to get back to my master touch and she was sent into orgasmic oblivion. By the way... the build up of soft touching excitement made her squirt without any penetration. It even shocked her. So sometimes you just need to change up your gameplan. Every woman is different and it is your job to master the art - so get to it!

Keep on caring my friends and continue to nurture your love of licking Va Jay Jay.

-Mr. Oh!