Monday, September 22, 2008

Giving Her Oral Sex - Suck on it like you would to a gummy bear

Written by... Call me Mr. Oh! at 10:41 PM

Like you would to a gummy bear, you've got to SUCK, CHEW, and SWALLOW. Well maybe not swallow, maybe not chew, but you definitely need to add sucking her vagina to your oral arsenal.

As we continue on our series of the Do's and Don'ts of Going Down According to Her we've covered Listening to Her Vocal and Physical Clues and Don't Force It. Now we're going on to one of my favorite topics, Sucking!


Here is what Mosa from Pretty Please Me had to say about Sucking:

"I think some guys are afraid to suck. Literally. They want to treat the vagina like a delicate flower, and I can appreciate taking it slow and being gentle, but having my clit sucked can be great fun and highly stimulating."

Now personally I think Mosa would be one awesome flower. Any girl that enjoys sucking, which most do, is a kind of girl I want to go down on.

You'll notice, however, Mosa mentioned "vagina" and not just clit. This is something I've been hearing is an issue with many of my female friends. A guy either sucks too hard on the clit, doesn't suck on the clit at all, doesn't suck on her lips, or sucks them WAAAY too hard.

Like knowing when or which girl to penetrate hard and fast with your member, you need to know how and with what intensity to suck on a woman's vagina.

The vagina is like a muscle in the gym, you need to warm up before you put it though its paces.

As Mosa said, taking it slow and being gentle is fine. It can be very important if the woman isn't completely aroused yet. So be gentle in the beginning but don't be afraid to put some intensity into it.

Try one of my favorite techniques under the, "Kiss, Tongue, and Suck" category:

When to use: In the beginning stages/first few minutes of going down on a girl
Duration: 3-4 minutes
Pace: Slow to Medium
Intensity: Light to Medium
Anatomy of the woman used: Pubic bone, outer lips, inner lips, clit

Explanation:

Phase 1: Kissing

  • Start by softly kissing at the top of the pubic bone (the top lining of her pubic hair, or where it would be).

  • Kiss in a clockwise or counter clockwise position counting the full 12 intervals around.

  • Kiss top right of her lips then proceed to repeat in a zig zag pattern from one side of the lips all the way down.

  • Slowly lick up her lip line but..

Phase 2: Licking

  • Lick in a circle around her clit while crossing her lip line as you do, making sure to gracefully spread the lips a little as you go. (meaning medium pressure)

  • Lick from bottom to top, left and right lips separately a few times.

  • Lick AND suck clit lightly and teasingly (engulf clit by putting lips around clit and tongue under the clit penetrating into her lips but just under the clit). Do this by using your tongue as a lower lip then suck lightly as if you were pulling her clit off her body but letting go well before actually doing so ;)

Phase 3: Sucking

  • Slightly turn your head (eyes almost parallel to lip line)

  • Suck each lip separately using your tongue to tease as you slightly pull into your mouth (medium intensity)

  • Turn head back to perpendicular (facing head-on with hips)

  • Lick up the middle of her lips spreading them apart

  • Lick her clit up and down medium speed, medium pressure 10-15 times

  • then Suck clit back into mouth tickling her clit at the same time for about 10 more seconds

Repeat if necessary or...

Transition:

From here you can either take her to an orgasm if you think she's getting impatient and doing more thrusting at your face (means she is urning for you and that oral oh!), or you can continue to tease and taste in other various ways.

We'll go more into various techniques after the series. But hopefully you'll pick up on a few we'll mention as we go in the series like this one from the "Kiss, Tongue, and Suck" category.

We've now covered sucking and some basics on intensity and when to use it. Try this technique on your girlfriend or next partner. And always feel free to add your own spin on it if you feel she wants something a little different in the moment.

Want to learn more on giving her oral sex? Check out:


Next post is going to be "Avoid the Pussy Dive". And feel free to visit Mosa's blog Pretty Please Me to get a sneak peak of her opinion on the subject.

Have a favorite technique you like to use? Leave a comment to let us know and maybe we'll add it to the Custom Techniques list that is coming soon.

Sex and be merry,

Mr. Oh!

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